Brushstrokes of His Grace

It’s funny. The word ‘grace’ seems to be all around me.

  • That ballerina moves with such grace.
  • I’ve never seen a more gracious host.
  • May God pour down grace upon grace.

And this is what I’m discovering: Whether used in secular situations (e.g. sports, etiquette) or not, I believe grace is a gift from the Father. In fact, in Christian circles, it’s defined as an unmerited gift from God. A professional football player running down the sidelines for a spectacular touchdown (Go Seahawks) and a prima ballerina have both been touched by grace. How? Both have put in thousands of hours of training; however, training alone doesn’t mean that s/he will be successful. I believe that the seed of passion and ability is a gift of grace from God. Talents – we don’t create them, we develop them—and we certainly don’t deserve them. The gracious host has been given the gift of hospitality, and those who develop and use that gifting are the best hosts. But the thing about grace is that it’s much bigger than a talent or a passion or a supreme ability. And much smaller, too. Sometimes, it’s a moment. A pause. A brief redirection. But no matter what, if you’re looking for grace, you’ll see the fingerprints of God, too.

I’m thankful for a moment of grace which I observed, and wish to share with you:

Recently, I was at our local big box hardware/home store, waiting in line to get some paint tinted. Beside me was a woman who was veryimportantandinaverybighurry!  The woman stood to my side, huffing and puffing, and otherwise showing for all the world to see that she was unhappy with the fact that she had to wait to have her paint tinted. PSA: If you’re going to a hardware store in the morning during the week, you WILL be behind every home renovation subcontractor who is picking up his paint for the day’s projects. You WILL wait. It’s just life.

Well, after the paint counter attendant finished with the subcontractors, she pleasantly focused on the womanwhowasinahurry. “Oh, yes. You needed ________.”  To which the woman exclaimed, “What?! You haven’t even…She hasn’t even started my paint!”

The clerk remained calm, started the machine, and walked up to the woman and noted that it would be about 10-15 minutes.

“WHAT?! I have already waited for 15 minutes, and I’m late, and now I can’t get the paint, and NEXT TIME, CALL FOR HELP!” And away she flounced.

Timidly, I approached the counter, made eye contact with the clerk, and said, “Hi.  I’m sorry.”

“It’s okay,” she said, shrugging it off. “It happens. People are just short-tempered.” And that was it. She was over it, moving on, and ready to help me. Now, to be honest, I don’t know if that event was replayed repeatedly in her mind or not, but I really don’t think so. I think grace was abundant in the way she was able to:

  • Keep her cool.
  • Not take the rant personally, and
  • Let it go, moving on to the next customer.

I admit, I was so impressed and convicted by the clerk’s response. Total grace. The hurried woman “deserved” to be slapped rebuked. But she was extended grace. How many times am I in too much of a hurry? How many times do I feel a sense of entitlement and that my needs supersede another’s? I mean, I may not say it out loud, but we know God sees the heart. Maybe I don’t yell or flounce. Maybe my reaction is more passive aggressive. Also, how often do I Taylor Swift shake it off when someone treats me rudely? I’ll admit, I have a lot of growing to do here, because I often:

  • Don’t keep my cool.
  • Do take the rant personally, and
  • Possibly a) fight back and definitely b) replay the situation, including how I could’ve won in the situation.

Man, more often than I’d like to admit, my heart has some evil junk in it. Darn it. Good thing weak, broken vessels are God’s specialty for showing His mercy and grace.

The cool thing (OK, one of the cool things) about God and about His grace is that He and it are unending, never-changing, and always present. His grace isn’t simply a one-time gift – it’s ours f.o.r.e.v.e.r. if we believe in Him and ask for it.

So what about you? Any grace sightings, lately? Please feel free to share them in the comments to encourage us all.

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)

 

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Gretchen has blogged for the last nine years, usually tying her faith to her reality, and has guest posted or written for Believe.com, JeanPSullivan.com and other blogs. It’s her honor to be among the writers on Grace & Such, and she is currently not only found here and at Jewels In My Crown Someday, but is also holding hands open for other writing (blogging and otherwise) and speaking opportunities as she waits upon God’s unfolding plans for her.
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12 thoughts on “Brushstrokes of His Grace

  1. Becky Preston

    Having worked retail, I know what that salesperson was experiencing. My reaction to this kind of situation wasn’t always like hers. (Sigh) But its a wonderful thing to see grace acted out in this way. What a blessing for you and for the sealesperson! You saw it in action, and she has no regrets. Thank you for this story of grace, Gretchen!

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    1. Gretchen

      Becky, I feel you. I used to work in retail, and my tongue would feel nearly bloody from the times I had to bite it to keep my job! LOL. Even working as a speech therapist, with grumpy patients (gee, why would sick people be grumpy?), I often would get close to losing my cool, because I’m a prideful human. However, God has been so merciful in sanding those edges. Love the examples He keeps throwing my way. Thanks for your comment!

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  2. Jen

    I have so little patience for rude people. Sometimes I forget that we are to show grace to EVERYONE. Not just the nice folks.

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    1. Gretchen

      Girl, preach. I have to remember that impatience is sort of a synonym for entitlement. Ugh. Daily battle. Daily scoops of grace. Thanks for your support!

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  3. Diane

    Yesterday I had lunch with a good friend. Our waiter was flip and inattentive, one of the things that just flips me off. My lunch companion shared the observation about the poor service, but showed him extra special, not even sarcastically as I would have, kindness. Grace in action. Giving him kindness – and a hefty tip – when he deserved so much less (in my eyes…and heart!). Thanks for reminding me to look for grace everywhere!

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    1. Gretchen

      My pleasure, Diane. Thanks for stopping by. I abhor rudeness. I really do. Especially in service professions.I think that’s why the women in the hardware store touched me so. I could see myself so often in the icky behavior, when I really wanted to see myself more often in the position of grace.

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  4. Tina Kachmar

    aaaaah, grace. We all want it but sometimes it’s so hard to give. You made me think about the people we leave behind in our trail of being “un”graceful. Something I will pay more attention to. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Gretchen

      Thank you for commenting, Tina. 🙂
      Yes! May my trail become shorter and shorter as I look to Jesus for the strength to give the grace He so readily shows me to others.

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  5. Lynnette Stone

    Sigh…. I am the one needing that GRACE I feel. Thank you!!!

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    1. Gretchen

      Thanks for stopping by, Lynnette. Me, too, sister.

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  6. Suzanne Lautaret

    <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

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  7. Penny

    Grace has so many faces and can do so much to encourage and uplift those we come in contact with, as well as, showing others who gives us grace in amazing ways. Thanks for the reminder to be on the lookout for the brushstrokes of grace in every day moments.

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