Grace Experienced

Grace:  One of my favorite words.  Grace has such a vast array of meanings to people.  To some grace is involved in the gift of salvation.  To others, it is a way of being, how one moves or interacts with others.  Grace is often viewed as the prayer offered before a meal.   As I meditated on the word ‘grace’, I was drawn to the experiential.  What would the experience of grace look like in my life?  Thus I began a month long practice of noticing grace in my everyday world.

The month passed with a greater awareness of the presence of Grace in my life.

One day I was driving home down one of the back roads of Pennsylvania that I love to take.  Suddenly I took in a whiff of freshly mowed grass.  Immediately, I slowed down and looked for the source of the scent.  The hay fields were still intact and there were no homes in the vicinity.  Not finding what it was that I sought, my attention went forward to the road I was driving on.  I was surrounded by woods, a drive I’ve taken hundreds of times before.  But this time I was looking with fresh eyes.  The woods were beautiful.  Welcoming.  Stunning.  A sense of tranquility, peace, and newness came over me.  I needed to remember to breathe.  At that moment I had an encounter with the One who created beauty.  It was a moment of grace.

Once during the month, a discussion with friends turned to a particular Spiritual Practice.

As a Spiritual Director, Spiritual Practices are close to my heart.  I gave my spiel on the purposes of this practice and some ideas on how to incorporate this into our lives.  One person began to object to some of the things I was saying.  Later, I realized it was a simple moment of misunderstanding, but at the time the conversation was becoming tense.   I sensed an invisible hand on my shoulder and a feeling of “stop talking” come over me.  There is a time to talk and a time to keep silent.  This realization was not from me, but an action of grace.

My husband wanted to take a Saturday and just do something other than yard work.  I wanted to start working on a water feature in our yard.  Something we both wanted to do, but now that he works from home he really needed some time away from the house.  We decide to visit a nearby historical site that we had always wanted to see, but never took the time.  My husband had a chance to relax and learn about William Penn.   I learned about flax.  Really, I didn’t know how linen came from flax.  This was a gift of grace to me.

There were other examples throughout the month that caused me to recognize the presence of Grace.  Simple moments like:

Using my over-abundant cucumbers to make pickles gave me great joy and a sense of accomplishment.

Walking with a friend and finding that we were like-minded on a controversial subject.

Unaware of the severity of the approaching storm, I was not hit by lightning while cutting the grass.

These are not huge events, but they were moments of grace I wouldn’t necessarily have recognized if I had not been intentional in looking for grace in my daily life.

This practice of identifying grace in the course of a day brought me to a practical understanding of how involved God is in my life.  His presence is everywhere and all I have to do is open my eyes and see.  Even in the tough things of life, He is there.

Psalm 139: 7-12 (NIV) took on a personal meaning for me:

7  Where can I go from your Spirit?

    Where can I flee from your presence?

8  If I go up to the heavens, you are there;

    if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.

9  If I rise on the wings of the dawn,

    if I settle on the far side of the sea,

10 even there your hand will guide me,

    your right hand will hold me fast.

11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me

    and the light become night around me,”

12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;

    the night will shine like the day,

    for darkness is as light to you.

If you would like to try this practice, all you need is a notebook.  Plan to review your day and see where Grace has made Itself known to you.  Sometimes you will recognize Grace immediately.  Other times, you may need to look back and realize, and say yes, that really was Grace.  But do write it down, it is such a delight to go over your notes and see where Grace has appeared.

Enjoy the journey with Grace.

Grace & Such strives to advance Christian growth among women. While we believe the Bible is the inspired Word of God, we also recognize human interpretations are imperfect. Grace & Such encourages our readers to open their Bibles, pray for wisdom and study for themselves what the Word says. For more about who we are, please visit the About Us page.
Rebecca Montie Preston
Follow me

Rebecca Montie Preston

Becky is a Spiritual Director from southeastern Pennsylvania.Her other roles include wife, mother of two, and grandmother of six.She has her MA from Biblical Theological Seminary, and studied at Renovare Institute for Spiritual Formation and Kairos School for Spiritual Direction.
Rebecca Montie Preston
Follow me

Latest posts by Rebecca Montie Preston (see all)

16 thoughts on “Grace Experienced

  1. Diane

    That was amazing. You are such a great writer. I will do this starting yesterday. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Its always a pleasure reading what you write

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      Thanks, Diane!

      Reply

  2. Gretchen

    Thank for the reminder to be on the look-out for these moments of grace. Life is so loud & fast at times. It’s important to listen for that still, small voice. Great post.

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      Sometimes God happens at the oddest times, but if we are attentive to Him, we’ll see Him.

      Reply

  3. Jen

    I find grace in my cup of coffee every morning. 🙂

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      Me, too, Jen. Me, too.

      Reply

  4. Diane

    Love to wrap myself in the perspective that grace is all around me, I just have to notice. Will start looking with new eyes and ears….thanks, Beck!

    Reply

  5. Marilyn bartha

    Thank you Becky! The practice of identifying grace- yes! It’s like a foretaste of heaven. I needed this today (and every day). I am so glad you put your thoughts down and shared them.

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      Thanks, Marilyn!

      Reply

  6. Ruth

    I am so grateful to have benefitted from your awareness of everyday grace! Thank you friend, for eyes that see the hand of God.

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      I know that you also see God in the everyday places of your life! I’ve learned from you!

      Reply

  7. Tina Kachmar

    This reminds me of the song by Lauren Daigle, “how can it be”. You always write in such a way that makes my eyes widen. Thanks for sharing your gift.

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      I’ve not heard her song before. I’ll listen to it.

      Reply

  8. Penny

    Everyday Grace — love that! I also loved sharing in your reflections of the gifts that God brought to you. Thank you for allowing me to join in your praise.

    Reply

    1. Becky Preston

      We’ll sing praises together!

      Reply

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *